MOTHER'S DAY!
© 2023 Liam Ian (LIAM IAN LLC)
THE CASE OF A DAY…THAT SEEMS TO BE JUST ANOTHER DAY.
Mother's Day is a time when we celebrate and honor the profound impact that mothers have on our lives. It is a day to recognize their love, sacrifice, and unwavering support. However, for some of us, the journey of motherhood is far from idyllic. It is a complex tapestry woven with both light and darkness, where appreciation and disdain often intertwine. As someone who has personally experienced the turmoil of childhood abuse and neglect at the hands of my own mother, I navigate this holiday with a range of emotions. Today, I want to reflect on the significance of mothers within modern society, acknowledging the complexities while celebrating the resilience that emerges from adversity.
The Power of Maternal Love: Motherhood embodies a profound love that has the potential to shape lives and create positive change. Despite the challenges many mothers face, there are countless examples of unwavering love and dedication that shape the lives of their children. It is important to recognize and celebrate the mothers who embody this power of love, providing a solid foundation for the next generation.
Overcoming Adversity: While some mothers excel in their nurturing roles, others struggle and may perpetuate cycles of abuse or neglect. This reality should not be ignored or romanticized. It is crucial to acknowledge that not all mothers fit the idealized image society presents. However, it is equally important to recognize the strength and resilience that can emerge from challenging circumstances. Survivors of difficult childhoods often develop a deep sense of empathy, self-awareness, and determination that shape their own journeys as parents and individuals.
Redefining Motherhood: The celebration of Mother's Day can serve as a catalyst for redefining our perception of motherhood. It prompts us to acknowledge and honor the diverse experiences of mothers, both the triumphs and the struggles. It urges us to broaden our understanding of what it means to be a mother and to extend our support to those who have faced adversity.
Conclusion:
Mother's Day is a time to reflect on the significance of mothers within modern society. It is an opportunity to celebrate the mothers who have provided love, guidance, and support, and to acknowledge the complexities that exist within the realm of motherhood. While personal experiences may shape our perspectives, it is important to embrace a nuanced understanding of motherhood, recognizing the resilience and strength that can arise even in the face of adversity. Let us honor the diverse journeys of mothers and foster a compassionate and supportive society for all.
*While i’ve been on this earth for 43 years now, I’ve seen many ups an many downs and what unfortunately I’ve found is that women are just as imperfect as men. I’ve found that many of the difficulties of my life have come from a number of flawed and failed decisions made by the women charged with my development, growth, safety and sanity. What I’ve further found is that out of all that I’ve endured, I’ve become a man of proficiency and professionalism. I’m capable of being an ambitious Father while a moderately happy husband. As a Black Man with still long-standing Goals and Ambitions having survived abuse and deprivation…having avoided the societal conditions that would otherwise see me in jail, disabled or just dead, I’m still pushing forward and in positive ways. I’m doing it…and doing mostly on my own…with God.
Now—while being in this position—I feel the need to encourage myself to develop a piece and product that symbolizes my feelings on Mothers.
The role of a Mother—as well as a Father—is key and fundamental to a child’s development. This is and has never been denied nor refuted but Mother’s are key to the overall wellbeing of the people that walk the earth. Many women endure and survive situations and circumstances that are totally out of their control—those that are often authored and implemented by men. In whatever case, none of us are perfect…and while we’re always compelled to be respectful and appreciative of the people in our lives, these holidays and events should do not to override or overshadow the people and experiences that have impacted our lives. Out of respect for my wife and the mother of my child, I know that there are some REALLY good mothers out there…and so, here’s to you.
Additionally, there’s no substituting the place of a MELANIN MOM; a mother of Color, Ethnicity and/or Culture. To those mothers who have had to endure society’s issues, pressures, issues and obstacles because of the color of their skin or the economic class or any other condition as byproduct of race and class, I say—WE say—Thank You. You are Loved and Appreciated.
MOTHER’S DAY - THE FEED - LIAM IAN
© 2023 Liam Ian (LIAM IAN LLC)